i “like” wolves

收到的原始电子邮件:

来自匿名:

“Hi there, thanks for putting this resource out there. It must be very gratifying to know 你在帮助我们很多人‘high bottom’醉汉朝着清醒迈出了第一步。

I 喜欢 狼。他们’野性,害羞,团队合作者和忠实拥挤的动物。我有西伯利亚雪橇犬。整体“wolfie”(讨厌的可爱名字来形容一些卑鄙的东西?)因为我需要脱水的内在尖叫声是’不会为我工作。所以我’我现在要退订。回到绘图板上,但还是要感谢。新年快乐!”

我: 🙂 all you have to do is change 狼人 to ‘hyena’ or whatever other animal you think lives in your head that says “drink, drink now.”  他还会说:“放弃这种支持,因为她’使用了错误的单词。”  拥抱我

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您如何看待来自Anon的电子邮件?您可能不同意我的回应… but if the word ‘wolfie’ doesn’工作,您有什么建议?给我发送电子邮件,其中包含您对Anon的建议。

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收到的回复:

跳舞兔子: “去看了BBC野生动物纪录片‘one life’在露天电影院…其中包括科莫多巨蜥。一个人n了一头水牛,整个人都在等待它被感染的伤口慢慢死亡。然后他们吃了它。 耐心,计算,持久。科莫多巨蜥不’t trip off the tongue quite as well as 沃尔菲 though.  I think anonymous will be back even if she did unsubscribe. I think your reply is spot on.”

快乐加人: “它 is the concept that matters not the name.  I have used committee of idiots as that is how it seems.  They get together, determine that 我不’真的有问题,请投票支持我恢复正常饮酒。我现在有一个健康委员会来抵消他们的影响,但我确实觉得对这个声音起个作用很有帮助。”

E: “Personally, I use Bitch to refer to my 沃尔菲 — the point is that we all have inner voices trying to convince us to stray off our new paths and cave in to temptation with 合理化, no matter what we call it. Thanks for all the encouragement and wisdom!”

ER: “任何有恶意的饥饿怪物都应该工作!”

BonBon: “I get what she is saying, I 喜欢 wolves too, and 狼人 didn’t do it for me either, however, I think your response is dead on. I feel 喜欢 she is throwing the baby out with the bath water. I 喜欢 to think of 狼人 as a fractured part of myself that needs and deserves love and attention. I just think of “him”就像我本人一样,但是如果我想成为谁的话,文明程度,不成熟程度以及有时会破坏性的版本。清醒的对待和清醒的帮助使自己的这一部分变得更像我所爱的部分。希望有足够的耐心和工作,我会充满爱和喜悦。我们都有自己的现实版本-承担世界上的一切并使之为自己服务的责任。继续做自己在做的事-我’m am so grateful for what you do – 狼人 and all.”

嘉年华: “I’m not crazy about 沃尔菲 either, but somewhere I saw ‘lizard brain’ is the part of the brain that wants to drink.  That primal part that just wants what it wants and right now!  So 蜥蜴脑 is just my primal self talking to my higher self.  And my higher self wins the last few months.”

ScrubJay: “我也喜欢狼。我对他们有感觉,因为他们受到了威胁,恐惧和猎杀。我喜欢所有的动物,不能’真的要选择一个来象征酒精的阴险力量。但是有些人在赋予权力某种个性时会做得更好。那一定是为什么“Wolfie”想法对他们有用。我不’我自己不会有这种感觉。我戴上FUW手镯,是因为它使我发笑,并避免我在做这种清醒的事情时过于重视自己和沮丧。我很少(如果曾经)使用亵渎的话“FUCK YOU WOLFIE!” just breaks the craving with some humor. I even feel sorry for 沃尔菲 because he must be very lonely and troubled to pick on people the way he does.  He needs some help 他self.  Maybe 狼人 should take the 清醒 挑战…”

AliSarah: “嗯– I 喜欢 wolves too –从来没有把“Wolfie” –所以我知道匿名来自哪里。你知道威廉·布莱克写的那首诗“The Sick Rose”?  My 狼人 is the Invisible Worm. Lives in my brain.  Glad to say it’这些天看起来非常萎缩。 “

美联社: “我喜欢你的回应。你可以叫它 “dis-ease”, monkey, hyena … I 喜欢 “wolfie” …最重要的是,匿名者正在使用该名称作为借口…她还没有准备投降鬣狗。”

凯姨妈: “我也称它为“asshole” sometimes…..”

Bex: “我觉得你’re spot on 美女 . 沃尔菲 (demon, monster, hyena, bear, beast, drunk whisperer, dog, cat, snake, dragon… Haha whatever it is…。潜意识想要喝声音…)会使用任何东西。任何“rationalization”远离清洁的生活。无论包装精美,借口都是借口。一世’ve told myself that so many times. 沃尔菲’s voice has come at me from so many directions. I’我为我起了很多名字“wolfie”. Labels don’没关系。告诉它有效,而不是今天。不’不必永远–但不是今天。那很重要。谢谢你,美女。令人赞叹的工作,永远都是美好的。”

莫琳: “The son-of-a-bitch in my head? What we name it is personal. 的tools for dealing with it are what you’re helping us with.”

咪咪: “格雷姆林或僵尸怎么样?”

输了&Healing: “我个人不’t use the term ‘wolfie’要么称之为它是什么:我的瘾君子思维。一世’我生命中的某个时刻我需要看清事物的真相’当我听到废话的时候对我有帮助“screw life, drink”识别正面并按其名称进行调用…我期待并感谢您的电子邮件支持。它没有’只要我知道它叫什么都无所谓。…我感谢您为我以及我们所有需要戒酒才能过上健康快乐的生活的人所提供的服务。”

夏天散步: “只是跟进,我对狼的理解就越来越多了。狼看起来很吸引人,漂亮而可爱,但是一旦你离得太近,它就不会有什么好处。我正在以新的角度看待它。酒精是披着羊皮的狼,如此诱人,却如此危险。喜欢它。”

JH: “我也有一个“high bottom” except my 高底 was a life-low for me, an acknowledgement that I was on a boring, sick, uncomfortable and sad path. Side note; It’有趣的是,阿农基本上说所有狼都是一样的。询问任何动物救助者–这些生物就像人类一样,具有独特的个性。”

丈夫#1: “我想到的其他人是:水ch(吸吮混蛋的血液),别西卜(即“sell me your soul”),吉姆·克洛斯(Jim Croce)(瓶子里的时间’不能抵抗那个!!))’时钟(众所周知,巫术时间),古卢姆(是,我的宝贝),撒旦’的徒弟,Anaconda(慢慢挤走了你的生命)。”

弗朗西斯: “它’就像是脑袋里的酒鬼,抢夺了生活质量,并试图窃取理性思维。”

起诉: “I think of 沃尔菲 in terms of Red Riding Hood and the Big Bad Wolf! … 沃尔菲 is just a face given to the voices in your head.  It makes it easier to stand up to the voices when you put a face there. Those inner voices are brutal and will try anything to keep you drinking and oh how they hate to lose.  But when they finally do lose life becomes so amazing.  I hope anon gets it and gets to see how great life can be.”

加拿大女孩: “My 沃尔菲 is the Big Bad Wolf character: the selfish, lying, greedy, slobbering, despicable animated beast, dressed in Grandmas pyjamas, who wants to gobble me up and hide the evidence. He can NEVER be trusted!! What you are doing is really important work, 美女 . Your depiction of that dysfunctional voice in our head as 沃尔菲, has been a really useful visual aide for many people. 匿名 maybe has 沃尔菲 right at her door looking for blood. “Don’不要撒谎!你有太多的损失!””

SusanC: “I 喜欢 wolves too, but only when they are away from me, 我不’不想让一个人住在我的房子里,吓死我,甚至有可能杀死我的狗和猫…. What we call the 狼人 voice is not the most important thing, I started off calling my voice weaselworm, because I wanted something that reflected the slimy insinuatingness (that’s not a word, I know) of it, but 狼人 also worked for me, as the ferocity of a 狼 suggested the ferocity and awfulness of a craving. 的important thing is (I think) that we recognize and name up and isolate the craving for what it is, a destructive and greedy and selfish bastard who will promise relief but only do harm, and I have found that by isolating it and then separating myself from it I have been able to get some control over it.  wolfie, hyena, vulture, shitty slimy slug …。实际名称’无关紧要,但命名行为确实….”

劳里: “我也喜欢狼,但是我明白了你的意思“wolfie”。当你谈论“wolfie”, 我不’别想像狼,而是以威胁我清醒的上瘾性格思考我的这一面。我永远不会读/或听你,因为你描述我所知道的东西的方式太好了–您的支持和协助远远超过了您可能会使用的任何术语。爱你!!!”

邮票: “天哪,我最近在保持清醒的挣扎中也在思考同样的事情。….I love and donate to saving wolves and why did 美女 use that name to describe the beast within ..i agree with your response to 安农 and that is what i did, thought of new names and Beastie was one.  Then I went right to the culprit which is the devil 他self who tempts us and thought of Lucy (Lucifer)! Thank you 美女 for being honest and kicking 沃尔菲/Lucy/Schmuck (so as not to insult those named Lucy:)  lol.. to the curb every time no matter what excuse/doubt  we come up with…你有合适的答案..TY!”

凯西: “它’真有趣。我也喜欢狼但是我穿我的“Fuck You 沃尔菲”骄傲的手镯!我什至从未想象过“wolf” when I hear 沃尔菲 whispering sweet evil mean nothings into my ear!”

伸出手: “我也喜欢狼。实际上,我爱所有动物,尤其是那些与狗的相像甚远的动物,所以,在我的清单上,狼是最重要的。因此,我可能赢了’不要购买任何‘fuck you 沃尔菲’百丽通过她出售的工具‘无耻的商业联系’, because it’只是不适合我。但…这不会阻止我阅读她的博客或收听/购买她的任何播客,因为她的狗屎很好。这对我来说是醉酒的高潮。名称或标签就是这样。 AA中有许多不可知论之处。 AA计划充满了对上帝的引用,但没有’阻止不可知论者参加会议,阅读文献并为成功康复铺路。该程序不是一种宗教活动。我不’真的不介意Belle是否以此称呼她的恶魔Wolfie或其他名字,因为’只是一个名字。她在会毁了她的东西上贴上标签。她不得不称呼它,Wolfie为她和可能还有许多其他人工作:)``它帮助她保护自己免受伤害。您可以调用它,也可以用内在尖叫的声音或其他任何对您有意义的声音。无论如何。它’s not the name that’重要的是:)对我个人而言,我’我不会因为我不拒绝任何能够帮助我康复的东西’喜欢这个名字。我不’我喜欢酒精饮料这个名字,但是每天提醒自己,因为我是酒精饮料,我不能只喝一杯酒比其他酒好得多,所以,我’坚持我的名字’t 喜欢, because it’是我康复的重要组成部分。我希望您能超越名字,重新订阅‘tired of 思维…’因为就像你自己说的那样:“你在帮助我们很多人‘high bottom’醉汉朝着清醒迈出了第一步。” 我知道您会做任何您想做的事情,以保护您的清醒,如果您非常想做,并愿意做任何需要做的事情。  Don’不要让名字成为一种宝贵的资源,这可能会帮助您进行恢复。如您所说,狼是忠诚的动物群。这里’希望您能重新加入我们的行列,因为有大量的安全和支持。祝您旅途愉快。”

乐蒂: “它 is very therapeutic to say ‘shut up 沃尔菲 you gigantic anus, I am not drinking today’ :)”

布兹: “我也有一个问题“WolfIe”。听起来太可爱了。我叫她西尔维亚(Sylvia)-听起来像是一个丑陋的老醉汉-钻进钻石,试图每天带我进入她的世界。我讨厌西尔维亚!但是我倾向于跟着她走到天涯海角! -”

Roisin: “Actually, I also struggle with the 沃尔菲 imagery, it doesn’对我来说自然而然,这让我有点生气,我无法’不能真正得到它,但有时它可以帮助我拥有除自己之外的其他东西,以愤怒和咒骂的态度!就我个人而言,我认为思考大脑沉迷的沉迷者部分,停止使用而使大多数突触萎缩,以及其他有用的,更健康的联系变得更强大并获得更多控制的想法更为现实。瘾君子部分仍然存在,但现在其他选择是我的大脑’s first response. The fact that 我不’t choose to name this thing 沃尔菲, however, doesn’t detract from the fact that your blog, audios, emails etc are hugely helpful. I find your insight, support and ways of looking at dealing all life all very pertinent and valid. To me it is irrelevant that you see 沃尔菲, I see something else.”

薇薇安: “… sometimes names DON’实际上,本质,思想和概念同样重要。有时候,引用巴德“一朵别称的玫瑰会闻起来很甜。”或者,要根据我们的情况自定义可爱的想法,“用任何其他名字呼呼喝酒的内心都会发臭如臭。”好的,莎士比亚在否定版本中也可以做得更好,但是您会明白这个主意的(因为这个主意比我的确切话要重要得多,对吗? ’相对清晰,您正在发挥想象力并信任我的真诚!)。在我自己的想法中,我认为这种声音是卑鄙的,是一个懒惰,受伤,情感操纵,缺乏创造力和独创性的人。当我’m “telling it off” I call it “The Mean Voice” or “The Lazy One” or “That Voice” or “The Drinker” or “The Former Me.”真的很简单,不是很有创意,但是足够好。这有助于插入,因为我有时还是会畏缩“wolfie.” 沃尔菲 or not, I hope you can dare to be open-minded enough to use your own creativity, imagination, and open-mindedness to look past whatever aspects of 美女 ’s work don’珍惜那些能帮助您的人。那’我们所有人都可以做。”

莉拉: “I had the same thoughts initially.  I am an animal lover.  All types.  I get excited when the neighborhood possum stops by for a visit. Really I do.  沃尔菲 sounds 喜欢 a cute little cub.  BUT, one day the light bulb went on.  的demon has to be manifest in some way.  Be it a devil with horns or whatever.  If you do not demonize the temptation and all the thoughts and emotions that keep you stuck drinking, you are always just battling yourself.  You drink.  You hate yourself for drinking.  You drink because you hate yourself for drinking.  And you are caught up a non-stop cycle of drinking and self-loathing. For me, I am 思维 about a rubber snake to keep on my dashboard.  My weakest time is the drive home.  我不’不能储存任何酒精。我只让自己喝一瓶酒(看,只有一瓶。’我不是一个沉重的饮酒者。嘶嘶声。嘶嘶声。”。

GX: “只要读一读’关于狼的评论–我知道她喜欢狼,可以看到这只是我们脑海中的酒精怪兽的一个比喻… 沃尔菲 could be rebranded as Boris?”

 

 

 

美女

I want to put this online, to hold myself accountable. I want to document the noise in my head. I'm 厌倦了思考 about drinking. date of last drink: june 30, 2012

  • 我认为您可以取消订阅某些内容’激励或激励您。保持清醒无所不包。对一个人有效的方法可能对另一个人无效。她将转到另一个网站,该网站可以更好地反映她对自己的身份和价值观的了解。有时需要从其他博客获得另一种观点。更清醒的工具,对不对?

  • 我不’t go for the whole 狼人 thing either, it felt to much 喜欢 a split personality thing for me, my brain doesn’似乎不喜欢,我尝试给它起不同的名字,但我觉得自己在叫自己的名字,这就像在自欺欺人。贝尔,您还有许多其他类比对我真正起作用#1对我来说,是永远下降的豪华电梯。它’我可以清晰地想象到这一点,然后我走下电梯,开始爬上楼梯,进入世界的开放空间。我有说的手镯“电梯一人打火机” it’s 喜欢 a tangible piece of my imagination and it really does feel 喜欢 it has super powers. 匿名 still needs to figure out what tools she needs, to me calling out on 狼人 is a tool , works for some but not everyone we all need to figure out what tools work for our situation.

  • 我总是合照小红帽’s 沃尔菲 – not a real 狼. In these days of political correctness, there will always be someone offended by something to the point of wanting to control everything everyone says. I can see where it might be hard to have to constantly exchange 沃尔菲 for something else as it is such a key character in the forum. Still, I think if a person was serious about quitting they would remain subscribed because there is a ton of support available which is not focused on 沃尔菲.

  • I think this person is not yet at the stage where he/she truly wants to quit drinking, and not liking the 沃尔菲 metaphor was a good excuse to unsubscribe without really giving it a chance. I also say this because his/her second sentence about how gratifying it must be appears to me to be dripping in sarcasm. It’s not a difficult concept to replace 沃尔菲 with something else that works. 那里have been many good ideas posted here. I once heard alcohol and the 喝酒的声音 compared to a dragon waiting to snatch you and drag you back into its den, which was an effective metaphor for me. 的fact that this person does not even want to attempt to think of another idea that will work, or take advantage of all of your supports tells me that he/she is just not ready, and not even really trying. Maybe that’s harsh, but that’只是我的印象。

  • Her 狼人 voice was obviously to loud and was fearing she may be on to something. I hope she is not still looking for one perfect thing because there isn’t一。她需要许多不同的东西,所有这些东西都以较小的方式朝着更大的目标努力。

  • I 喜欢 wolves too. From a distance they are beautiful, majestic creatures. But 我不’喜欢大灰狼。我当然不会让狼进入我的房子。狼是掠食者。捕食者。如果有机会,他们会杀了您,然后再杀死他们。就像大脑中的那个笨蛋一样。匿名者显然正在寻找逃生计划,如果我的屋子里有只狼,我也会这么做。

  • 我也喜欢狼。我在北极的职业生涯初期碰巧在加拿大北部工作,我们会经常见到他们。美丽的动物。我还拥有一只与狼接近的狗,我认为这是博德牧羊犬。将黑白更改为灰色,然后… voila 狼. What is the similarity to 狼人 ? Nothing and that is the point. Actually there is no no point. When you want an excuse to begin drinking there are very many of them. Mad, sad, happy, glad and now – 我不’t 喜欢 the term 狼人. It’只是一个字。清醒是一种更好的生活方式。只是在说。

  • I have always thought of the native American Indian concept of 2 wolves that live inside us (good and evil). Which one thrives and wins? 的one you feed….

    I’m yet to starve 沃尔菲 for longer than 7 days. I 喜欢 wolves- but I want to kill this one. He’变得过于强大,像他拥有这个地方一样四处走动。

  • 喜欢剩下的所有消息,仅需添加–除了重申– the name doesn’t matter .
    Wild mice and ducks bear no resemblance to Minnie , Mickie and 唐ald!!
    我认为这是我们里面的瘾君子–随便叫什么–但是我们需要认识到” 狼人’ “Beryl’或只是不合逻辑,强大,狡猾和强大的成瘾怪物试图控制–你猜怎么了 ??他/她/这不是你的责任– you are !!
    祝好运 !!

  • 最初阅读时,我认为这是一封来自匿名的恶作剧电子邮件。然后我想也许这是他们之后写的一封电子邮件’我一直在喝酒,因为它看起来很奇怪,’s pretty plain that 狼人 is a personal symbol of sneaky malevolence that works for belle…..不适合我,也不适合很多人,但如果可行的话,请称其为恶性口腔癌或对您个人不利的任何事情。然后我的反应很快就是对这个人的认可,悲伤和希望之一。很难想象他们在哪里’再次(在那里!)和内部斗争’目前正在为他们服务。它’就像我决定退订,因为Belles继父的岩石不’t resonate with me. Or unedited podcasts! 沃尔菲 is really a word, and this person is on a journey. It’非常棒的是,他们实际上进行了沟通,并伸手进入这个网络空间以在取消订阅之前进行写作。他们可能会再次订阅并阅读我们的所有回复。如果是这样,是的!选择其他名称并欢迎回来?!

  • 你不’除非您不愿意,否则请取消订阅这样的内容’准备获得支持并退出。我希望Anon找到自己的方式。我们都去过那儿。她需要一段时间不喝酒而产生的顶部空间才能清楚地看到它。

  • I agree with 2个. I think any excuse is as good as any to stop the support. She (or he) is going back to the drawing board? Find a real reason to quit not because a lot of us identify with 沃尔菲. When you look deep inside, it is YOU there and you are in control. Okay. I would 喜欢 the unsubscriber to reconsider, but until then I wish her or 他 清醒 success. JULIE-JOY’S DAD …第MCCXXXVI天或1,236。生活很好!

  • 我想“wolfie”更像坏人(不是美丽的狼),更像电影中黑色的咆哮牙齿…he’是狡猾的对手。但这不是重点吗?你要喂哪只狼?是好是坏?

  • 您的回应是完美的!我选择不使用“wolfie”要么是因为我曾经养过一只猫,但我当然不会’取消订阅。匿名人士似乎一直在寻找逃生计划。

  • I agree in part with the unsubscriber. 沃尔菲 has never worked for me representing the inner tyrannical voice. I too love wolves and think they’是一种被广泛误解的动物+我知道它来自切诺基的伟大传说。
    但它’s just a label that has nothing to do with actual wolves. Now that my crazyass 喝酒的声音 has calmed the hell down, and has not piped up too much lately, 我不’真的有个名字,除了‘drinking voice’. And it’s good to keep it objectified, separate from self. 沃尔菲 works for a lot of people. And the point is to stay 清醒 . Which I am.

    感谢百丽的所作所为。

  • 我不’t think 安农 was ready to chose sobriety and would find another reason to check out if 狼人 wasn’太方便了。我希望她回来。为了什么’s worth, 我不’t do the 狼人 thing either.

    But if I had to name 狼人, I’d call 他 道格 . Not coincidentally, that’也是我的名字。因为“wolfie” isn’一些外部拟人。它’s me.

  • 当您准备退出并接受帮助时,您不会’不要放弃帮助,因为您不同意假装恶棍的名字。您调整并接受帮助。我是这样的人,伤心地说,还没准备好,但清醒只是假装我是。就像一个在沙盒中玩耍的孩子看着其他所有孩子,但还没准备好加入。争吵愚蠢的狗屎,因为这是我喝酒而不接受帮助的一种方式。当这个人’真的准备下车了,他们’会回来的,他们赢了’不要给他该死的东西’我们会做好一切准备,拼命地做好准备,尽一切可能使自己变得更好。拥抱所有人

  • It’打个比方(!),我发现自己对匿名有很多判断力’的决定。我认为,“Well, you’将您的力量交给一个单词并找一个借口。”另一方面,如果您发现它,就知道了,我知道我’我以许多借口继续饮酒。一世’ve been a lurker for several weeks (months, maybe?) and have, yet again, made the choice to go 清醒 . Thanks for the support in drowning out 沃尔菲/Ego/Boris/Hyena/Whateverthehellyouwanttocallit!

  • 我不’不要以为我是狼。我开玩笑说我可以合理化任何东西(你想找个借口吗?我可以找个借口!),合理化的声音就像政治家一样。然后’我想像自己内心的饮酒声音/自我。超级泥煤蛇油推销员。我想到电影中的一个角色(Balthasar,由加文·罗斯代尔(Gavin Rossdale)执导的电影《君士坦丁》中的恶魔)是个狡猾的说话魔鬼。绝对是蜥蜴王。我认为对把它想象成狼的想法不屑一顾。但是也许那个人’s just not ready yet. I know what my beast/devil is and I am just not voting for 他 or buying from 他 any more.

  • 我同意一位说她的读者’s throwing the baby out with the bathwater. 沃尔菲 is 美女 s inner voice, and I think at least Americans all grew up hearing about innocent little red riding hood and her big bad 狼. So just because you 喜欢 wolves doesn’并不意味着它们对人有好处。无论如何,一个人不喜欢狼会怎样?被饥饿(或口渴)的人困住了?我觉得’s what our “critter brain”是在做。所以称它为您想要的。但是不要’不要为别人的称呼而烦恼。

  • 有趣。我还喜欢狼,在对拉布拉多北部的黑熊进行了五年的野外研究期间,他们与狼一起生活在附近,将它们带到我在西北野生动物园的家中(一只在我们的车道上杀死了一只狗),并研究了它们对北美驯鹿种群的影响作为我在加拿大北部野生生物生物学家工作31年的一部分。“Wolfie” is just a name –就像上面所说的,您可以切换‘wolfie’对你有用的–我有点像鲍里斯(Boris),因为它让我想起了鲍里斯(Boris)和娜塔莎(Natasha)“Underdog” fame –对于我们某些年份的人来说!对于加拿大北部的驯鹿来说,生活中最担心的就是狼–狼实际上会驱动驯鹿的行为和种群。‘Smart caribou’保持警惕,让狼潜伏在周围,寻找虚弱的迹象,这意味着晚餐可能很快就会开始。所以,我第一次读到有关贝儿的邮件时‘Wolfie’一个星期前,我说‘wolfie’是一个适当的隐喻。我不’想到‘wolfie’在我们的头上试图诱使我们喝一杯,我们无论如何都在欺骗着狼作为一个物种的地位和作用。没有狼,我们’d没有狗,没有狗的生活会更加贫困。狼杀死我的狗巴迪时,我感到非常难过,但是’事物处于遥远的北方的一部分– not a whole lot you can do about it, except maintain vigilance for the 狼 (or 狼人) that could be at the door waiting, waiting, waiting… There –我的想法很快‘Wolfie” 🙂

  • 的interwebs say that the phrase “wolf at the door” means: If a hungry 狼 is at your door, you are in serious trouble.
    麻烦来了。
    的“wolf at the door”指试图破坏其居民的任何危险或掠食者,范围从饥饿,贫困到人身死亡。

    但是我叫我米尔德雷德。米尔德雷德(Mildred)是我的一个姨妈,羞辱和贬低了我,使我永远感觉不到好。当那些声音开始在我的脑海中时,我很高兴地说“Shut up Mildred” –因为我值得保持清醒!

  • 我称之为野兽。我把它想象成一种肮脏的,臭的,肮脏的食人魔型“thing.”我也称它为F ** ker,因为有时确实会使我生气。走开,别再烦我了!

  • 我的格兰’s name was Sylvia haha! In trying to think of a name for my Wolfe I immediatly think of revolting expletives, but my Wolfe is a 狼, a Lonley angry, rabid and ostracised 狼 screaming and howling away. Using a cute name disempowers 他, so Wolfe works for me.

  • Your response was great. I call it monkey chatter, 混蛋, 沃尔菲, doesn’t really matter. I never thought 狼人 was a cute name, I always associated it 喜欢 a 狼 in sheeps clothing. I feel badly for that initial commentator, she just isn’准备好了(但心里知道她是)我想我们’都去过那里,我们可以用任何借口不停地喝酒。我希望最适合那个人,并希望她(或他)能找到安宁。

  • 我称它为酒。您可以随心所欲地命名’很好。我有一个FUW钥匙串,但我认为它提醒您需要保持警惕。因为豪饮无处不在,似乎是解决任何问题的最佳解决方案。您’我已经知道这不是解决方案,因此帮助我采取了行动,为此我将始终心存感激。

  • the name is irrelevant, not listening to the self-destructing voice is what’s important. I love wolves, it has nothing to do with wolves, I love my kids too, yet it never stopped me from drinking. I call it 狼人, he’s an old boyfriend that cheated on me and beat me up whenever he had a chance, I finally decided that I had enough and would not take 他 back into my life, so I tell 他 FUW when he calls. Thank you 美女 for showing me that my old boyfriend, my longest relationship was one of abuse.

  • 我所知道的是,我当时处在一个肮脏的地方,而美女’的写作和这个站点使我感到宽慰,并意识到事情可能会发生变化,我可能会发生变化。
    我不打电话” it ”任何东西,真的(很好– maybe I call ” it ” , IT )? …
    我只知道” it ” sucks.

  • 我也喜欢狼,但有人补充– from a distance. 我喜欢them as a totem animal. 的birth of 沃尔菲 came from the Cherokee Tale of Two Wolves which speaks of two wolves living inside your head. Google it if you want to read it. It’简短明了。因此,我倾向于使用该消息,尤其是FUW,并跳过图像或替换许多人谈到的图像。使用可行的方法,放下其余部分,或以自己的方式进行修改。美女和她的消息对我有用!

  • 你可以叫它什么… 我不’t call it 狼人. I call this nasty nagging voice of mine Walda. Am I going to unsubscribe because you call it 狼人 and I call it something else? No. I also 喜欢 wolves. In fact, I 喜欢 a lot of animals. Am I feeling offended? No. Your reply was perfect.