你独特吗?

这很奇怪。一世’我正在为新闻做一些准备(操,让’停在那儿喘着粗气,好吗?)和我’m considering how to describe myself. like, what is it 那 makes me unique in this 清醒 space.

It’这是一个奇怪的肚脐注视运动。这让我感到不舒服。因为我们’re all unique. I’我不比其他人更独特。一世’m a 清醒 girl, who has found her sobriety insurance in the form of 存在 a 清醒 penpal. The rest, to me, is extra. Really. I’我不谦虚。一世’我想当真。

无论如何。这里’练习。您可以帮助我,同时考虑您。

In the comments, please write what you think is unique about me and this 清醒 thing. 您 might say i’我是一位*好*作家,我’ll say 那 lots of people are 好 writers, 那’不是唯一的。也许我’m 存在 difficult, or maybe i’我缺少明显的东西。

So after you write what you think is unique about me (holy), then in the same comment, write something 那 is unique about YOU. what special talent, or combination of talents, or attribute, or loveliness do you have 那 hardly anyone else has。它’很难,对吗?我是认真的’在别人身上做比在别人身上做要容易。

如果这变得奇怪,或者似乎是自私的,我’我将把帖子删掉。如果您稍后再回来,但这种情况不见了,您’ll know why 🙂

美女

我想将此放在网上,以追究自己的责任。我想记录一下我头上的声音。我厌倦了考虑喝酒。上次饮用日期:2012年6月30日

  • 美女- you are brave and strong, willing to speak fearlessly and post about a difficult and personal topic 那 many of us- including me, had previously been afraid to discuss with anyone. Thank you for 存在 you and for helping me feel less alone. Xoxo.

    Something lovely about me? 那’今天很难,但明天会更好。

  • Well, 美女:
    没有人给我打电话‘sweet pea,’更不用说回复电子邮件时我承认自己已经崩溃了。它使我发笑,使我哭泣(又一个小时),也使我哭泣(又一个小时)。然后我起身继续前进。谢谢。
    I’m not sure 那 anyone can identify what makes them unique. I have a weird skill set, a gothic past, and really 好 taste in men, but so do many people. And, I’m on day 90–which is not at all unique, and I am surprised and happy to learn 那. Here’对我们所有90位进餐者来说都是万岁!

    • i had to call you sweet pea right before i gave you shit for 存在 too hard on yourself 🙂 you taking care of you is a big deal. day 91 today. hooray for you.

  • Dear 美女,
    什么 makes you unique is the personal connections you make to each one of us.
    您 take time to respond to each one of us, giving encouragement and hope.
    您r “Wolfie”声音使我们有办法与自己的冲动交谈。
    您r 100 day 挑战 gives us a running start.
    您r 清醒 art, gives us way to see we can do more than drink.
    我认识的人中没有人提供此功能和更多功能。
    您 have helped me get and stay 清醒 and I am forever grateful!
    拥抱
    巴黎

  • How 你独特吗?

    Well, when I first read your blog it struck a chord with me. 您 have the ability to write in a way 那 has me often thinking, “That’正是我的感受”这样可以在恢复过程中建立更有意义的人脉关系。您’就像每个人都希望拥有的堂兄,’判断自己何时被打扰,或者何时需要bit子时倾听,一个直率的说话者可以在您踏上正确的道路时为您提供帮助’ve lost your way.

    我有什么独特之处?

    It pains me to write, but when I finish my work, I find the process satisfying. I also have red hair and I like to think 那 我可以 laugh about myself.

  • 您’重新独特,因为你’re telling people 那 this shit is hard work but at the same time you help them to believe 那 they can do it and, more importantly, you help them to find a way to believe 那 they are worth the hard work.

    那, in combination with the personal emails, the very manageable 100 days approach and the encouragement to step back onto the horse each and every time you fall off also make this page unique.

    我?一世’m unique because for about 10 years I was certain 那 my drinking would just slowly get worse and worse because I would never be able to stop. But I did stop and now 我可以’别想其他方式。我看到很多人需要做我做过的事情,但是’t ready yet. So I am grateful 那 I found the strength and courage –在这个博客上我的第一个婴儿步骤– and I know 那 那 makes me unique.

    大拥抱
    柯斯特xx

  • 从Merriam Webster字典的第一个定义开始,在唯一的含义上:
    — used to say 那 something or someone is unlike anything or anyone else
    每个雪花的形状都是独特的。
    他的才华使他真正独一无二。

    美女, you have unique talents and a unique skill set 那 you use in a new way with a new mix of social media and technology tools to lead a community of people to live in the present, in sobriety.

    我可以’t go into details about my uniqueness because there could be people who would know who I am from 那 description, ergo, I am unique. All of my life people have told me I’m different. I relish 那, it gives me energy.

    With all of 那 uniqueness I read the blogs and 美女’s writings and say hey 那’s me, too. 那 sounds like me.

  • 美女 , there’s no one like you ! I mean most in recovery might decide to give back by 存在 a sponser …但是您选择考虑这个100天的挑战…. 那 had no choice but to expand into gynormous proportions !!! It must be incredibly hard to keep up wih yet you make it seem light and easy and you DO know who we are and keep us all straight in your head !
    你永远原谅,你永远带我们回去,你永远理解!我是说我’我不是超级宗教…。但这确实是一件非常宽容和属灵的事’re doing !

  • Well, 美女, I would have to say 那 我可以 think of no one, except maybe mother Teresa, who invests in the lives of others as deeply and as sincerely as you do. It takes alot of time to do what you do…和免费的freakin。什么?你真厉害至于我我没有 ’t figured 那 one out yet…。我肯定知道…you have made me a better person. Or rather helped me to expose the beautiful me 那 was already there and needed a little resurrection belle power.

  • 美女, you are unique because of this crazy, wild thing you do for all of us. 您r encouragement on all levels is undeniably awesome. Not only do you send emails, and you are consistent with this whether you are in or out of the 100 day 挑战, you also send out snail mail as well. I believe you will also send out care packages 那 contain homemade cookies…越过海洋,为了上帝’是的!你真的是一颗宝石。我之所以与众不同,是因为尽管我早些时候养成了一些坏习惯,但我总是愿意努力改变自己的生活。我只是不’不要放弃,因为我可以看到前方的光明前景。

  • I think what makes you unique is 那, as you’ve seen, a lot of people attempt to get 清醒, but very few are able to quickly bust out of the isolation 那 most of us have in common (i.e. isolation of the drinking problem). And in busting out of 那 isolation find 那 the closest thing to a cure is to create an interact in a community of meaningful relationships. It is a simple act, but it is rare and not easy to do.

    I’m unique in 那 I am a pretty natural mediator and can be conscious of a lot of people’的感受和兴趣是同时的(当然,除了我自己沉迷于饮酒时)。

  • 他妈的你的狼人…….now 那 is unique! As for me? hhhhmmmmm, God made me special –特别独特!对我来说明天是100天(’t all 那 special but I thought I’d嘟嘟我自己的号角!)xxoo

  • 您之所以与众不同,是因为您在短短100天内成为了我的长期童年朋友;看来您确切地知道了我来自哪里以及现在在哪里。您还具有独特的能力,即使从未见过我,也知道该说什么,该说什么时间,而且这种情况一直存在。您已经进入我的灵魂,并相信我,这是独一无二的,很少有人拥有。您有一个独特的程序,可以帮助您避免污名化,无耻无耻的情况,并且将其赠送给您,这在当今这个世界上是完全独一无二的。您说我们可以帮助您,但您却没有“Belle”独自一人,但唯一的是,保持清醒,接受我们越来越多的小鸡,紧紧抓住救生筏,并坚定地引导我们走出这条爱情之路。您拥有自己的独特性,每当您让它进入世界时,我们都会变得更好。我只是一个普通的女人’就像喝酒让她有一种感觉一样,那里没有独特之处,我当然没有’不要走到世界各地去博客并尝试帮助他人。您拥有独特的头衔,独特的清醒女王!

  • 您 provide a balance of practical experience and humor in the service of healing a bunch of strangers. Who does 那? Who thinks and imagines 那 all up? And for what? It wasn’钱,这是一种治愈自己的方式…this story gets better and better. This is an unconditional love for self and others 那 is self replicating…this is the model 那 you imagined and created. Who does 那? 美女 does.
    我?我为木偶编造疯狂的声音,以引导教师发挥自己的创造力。一个中年妇女的身体中的顽皮孩子。

  • 您 are unique like a mother! My 清醒 mother,you hold my spirits up when I repeatedly fall,and you give guidance and audios 那 are real with no b.s. 您 are my lifeline to the 清醒 world and my pen pal. 您r way of communicating is unique with flair! I am unique because I am a person who can’t handle alcohol,who is struggling,and you are my lighthouse everyday and for 那 I am grateful you haven’却把我丢回了苦海!

  • Namaste: 在写您的其他评论之前,我是在写这篇文章,但是恕我直言,让您与众不同的是(您现在并没有吓到所有人)您基本上是通过行为疗法来帮助我们的,而自己并不是行为治疗师。您了解,需要改变行为(治疗)的人必须偏向于积极的强化,而不能改变行为本身(喝酒),并且一开始就需要很长的强化计划,并且可以随时间推移而变薄。您设定了目标(100天),并以视觉方式提醒我们我们的进度(每日电子邮件)。您比我的闹钟更可靠。简而言之,您是一位了不起的老师。

    About me (the teacher)… 什么 is unique about me? 您’re right, this is harder. I enjoy working with “challenging” children. 那’s unique? I’ll have to get back on this one.

  • Dearest 美女,
    I echo every single word written above. But, for me, what makes you unique is 那 you put a “face” to the monster 那 is alcoholism – WOLFIE! For me this was life changing. No one else ever did 那. There was no 面对, just emotions and thoughts 那 controlled our drinking, so I was the bad guy, the looser To have an actual “being”对抗使我可以控制并与AND进行战斗!
    您说得很对(与往常一样)…很难想到自己的独特之处。也许让我与众不同的是我在人际交往中看到事物的能力……用柠檬制成众所周知的柠檬水一世’我不是天真地对待世界及其问题,我只是试图始终看到在所有情况下的积极和对所有人的好处。
    (((((()))))
    苏威

  • The way you express your thoughts and feelings, 那’是我被吸引到的东西。诚实& genuine. 您 give a shit and I love how you take the time to personally respond to the emails. No bullshit either. I <3 what you do here.
    嗯….. I'm 好 at saving $!

  • 美女, you’重新独特,因为你 haven’即使我放弃了’ve had so many Day ones. And your emails to me hit just the right note; you seem to know me. How is 那 possible?
    不确定我如何独特…hmmm…也许是我博客上诚实的声音?但是不是’每个人都对自己的博客诚实吗?安妮x

  • 您, 美女, a重新独特,因为你 are able to love people who feel unlovable, until they can love themselves. 您 a重新独特,因为你 found a gentle way to reach out to scared strangers and give hope to them in a safe environment. 您 a重新独特,因为你r desire for others to live a 清醒 life is purely selfless, in a world 那 at times seems so selfish. 您 are unique because in all the business of life, you are a constant, your messages instructive, hopeful, and personal. I know I have never 遇见 anyone quite like you. 您r service to others is an inspiration to many.

    我很独特,因为我有第二次机会,这真是太神奇了!

    XO

  • 您 are constant.
    您 are dependable and accessible.
    您 know what to say cos you have been there and 那 counts for so much.
    您 live in my computer and my iPhone and you are always around when I need reassurance.
    所有这些事情,我的朋友,对我来说让您与众不同。
    xx

  • Dear lovely 美女, I have never encountered someone with such deep empathy and heart. 您 are able to meet people just exactly where they are, without judgement. 您 never give up on anyone. And you have a calm gentle strength 那 has led to getting 清醒 by yourself and living in a foreign country and building your own businesses and reaching out to hundreds (thousands?) of people every day. I know you say you do it for your own benefit but I think there are few people who would be able to do it with the kindness, patience, understanding and compassion 那 you express. 您 are very insightful and honest. And often very funny. My life is richer for having “met” you.

    我?我是野性的,精神的,嬉皮的书呆子,终于学会了诚实地生活。

  • 什么’s unique about you is 那 you are personable and real…当我寻求帮助时,您真的回答了,所以感觉就像是一个朋友’判断但了解斗争。

    我?独特?不,但是奇怪的是…我的人民会说我’我性格外向,但我’我真的是一个性格内向的人…tested and proved…大概是为什么我开始喝酒…

  • Today you are you, 那 is truer than true. There is no one alive who is youer than you”。苏斯博士当然是明智的。而且您也很独特,因为您以所有播客结尾,“Okay, 好-bye” in 那 crazy funny voice and I crack up every time!!!!!

  • 您r ability to get to the heart of the issue is uncanny. 您’就像一个熟练的外科医生,用一把精密的手术刀切开粪便。和我们’剩下的只是事实的简单。

    什么 makes me (somewhat) unique is my ability to laugh, and make other people laugh, even as we are despairing.

  • 什么 makes you unique is your tenacity and dedication to this blog and to all your readers and 清醒 penpals. I have seen many, many 清醒 blogs come and go, some just abandoned without a parting note. 您, 美女, clearly have a deep and abiding appreciation for those who reach out and seem to have an endless well of support to offer. 您 have filled a much needed void and greatly changed the status quo of how to get, maintain and sustain a 清醒 life.

    As for the possible comment of there 存在 plenty of “good” writers out there and 那’s not so unique, well, yes! 那 speaks to something much bigger: It’s not 存在 好 at it 那 matters, but the telling of the story. And 那 is what makes us all unique.

  • 美女,
    您 a重新独特,因为你 care for others. 您 are selfless and have helped countless people on their 清醒 journey. The domino effect from someone getting 清醒 will affect their family relations, marriage, work, health, and frienships. The future generation 那 will not drink because they are 存在 raised by 清醒 parents. Plus you are funny and super into reality.

    It is hard to write your own unique attribute , for me I will say I have love in my heart and a 好 sense of humor- oh yeah and 清醒 too !!

  • 您 are irreverent, funny, honest and completely relatable. 您 have the ability to write posts 那 nearly everyone can identify with. Although your early posts during your first year of sobriety were about you, they weren’自恋或自我中心。与我的(私人)博客不同,您的帖子具有幽默感和机智。它让我想起了大卫·塞达里斯(David Sedaris)’ work –同时令人恐惧和搞笑。

    关于我独特吗?嗯..我’我强,有趣和诚实。随着年龄的增长,我越来越不在乎别人对我的看法。我终于学会了站在自己的真理上,不管它是否折腾了几根羽毛!
    还在呼吸

  • I think it is interesting 那 you are able to navigate this sort of public persona/display and not be driven to drink. Public appearances and attention from the press are almost always guaranteed to drive me to the wine bottle, 那 is why have not done a public appearance for over a year. More power to you if this type of exposure does not get under your skin.

  • 我们避风港’t 遇见, and we haven’t been communicating 那 much (relatively speaking), or for 那 long. And yet, you have this amazing ability to make me feel better.

    For me, and I imagine for a lot of others, 那 is what is unique about you 美女.

    您 just make me feel BETTER.

    那 mightn’听起来很像,但是确实如此。

    As for me, 我可以 only think of one thing 那 might make me unique. I’m not sure, but I’ve never 遇见 anyone else who is the same as me in this respect. 我可以’t burp.

    桦木女孩xxxx(第39天)

  • 您 a重新独特,因为你 are human.

    I’我也很独特,因为我’m human.

    The beauty of your uniqueness is 那 you are willing to reach out to perfect strangers and offer them an understanding of themselves, better, wider and deeper than they currently grasp within.

  • 美女, what makes you unique is your honesty. 您 don’t谴责您的同伴酒鬼(前酒鬼);您给我们您经验,信息和工具的礼物–您了解我们将如何跌倒并振作起来,然后您就可以帮助我们。你不是’t A.A., you’是清醒的另一种方式。更风景优美的路线?你说他妈的!
    什么 makes me unique is my generally positive outlook, and my sense of humor. I say FUCK! (I say a lot of other stuff, too.)

  • 您: 您r uniqueness comes from within.. Its like you are a friend to hundreds of people, and only know a handful of us personally in real life.. This is so unique.. To be completely honest and open and always there for those of us 那 feel alone and friendless and hopeless in our sad, lonely, desperation to get 清醒.. 您 are unique by 存在 a genuine caring person 那 stays 清醒 and is able to let shit go even though you may hear some god awful shit.. 您 a重新独特,因为你 are the one and only 美女, no more no less..
    我:我的独特性也来自内部。.我是隔壁的普通女孩,有许多我很少分享的许多独特的秘密和特质。并给予..现在清醒的我是独一无二的,因为我可以离开我不穿的衣服’不需要并照顾我。.我与众不同,因为我属于网络清醒组织,可以满足我的清醒工具包的一部分,而我与众不同,我没有任何问题。.我与众不同,因为我已经20岁了在恢复中醉…..
    I am so proud of you for getting positive press and moving forward with this Sober Cyber Movement.. 您 are Unique, 您 are Appreciated, 您 are Loved..
    o
    莱克斯

  • 您’re unique in 那 you make each of us feel special and unfearing of what’下一个!好像我们实际上坐在您的餐桌旁喝着茶和饼干,一起扑向Wolfie!纯粹的友谊!一世’m unique because I’m a badass 清醒 Pastry Chef living in the middle of the ocean! 😉 Thank 您 for all you do 美女! Xoxoxo

  • 嗨美女
    什么 makes you and your blog unique to me is the strength of character 那 comes through. 您 tell it like it is – raw honesty – you are real – you are positive about sobriety. 您r audios are funny, compassionate, moving, have really practical information – love them.
    您 offer a really 好 alternative to AA- ( no disrespect to AA- have been , and never want to go back –太多的内and和污名)
    仍在发挥我的特殊才能–只是想在我不被其他事情分心之前把它发送出去
    Gx

  • 匿名: 您 know, what’s unique about you is your remarkable ability to communicate. 您 are an excellent writer, but so are loads of people.
    以某种方式,您以交流和阐明我们经验的共同部分的方式讲话-您开始尝试解释您的感受,但是您似乎总是以最终解释我们所有人的感受的方式这样做。您为我们所有人讲每个故事。您已经从监狱墙的另一侧进行了非常个人化的,亲密的对话,我们可以立即访问。你真的很了解监狱–您有空,您也希望我们也确切地知道如何获得免费。

  • 您’重新独特,因为你 add value to your own but particularly our 清醒 journeys. 您’re standing on 那 ledge, just ahead of us, reaching a helping hand down to us. 您 sprinkle magic Soberdust around so we follow the trail, gaining nuggets of wisdom and treats as we go.
    I’m unique because I’激发我的创造力,为我的清醒之旅加油。

  • 美女: 您 are unique because of your ability to say exactly what I need to hear at the exact moment 那 I need to hear it. 您’同时诚实,现实,富有同情心和有趣。您花时间写信给我们所有人,通过播客与我们进行博客和交谈的时间真是令人难以置信。你好…一对一电话…好上帝,是谁做的???您让我觉得过上清醒的生活是值得的,并且有可能而且实际上是最好的生活方式。您与我们分享的关于这种清醒生活的知识和经验有助于我们度过挣扎。我发现自己在说…What Would 美女 Do??? in many life, not just drinking, situations. Thank you!!!

    I’m unique because I’m hilarious, and I wear my heart on my sleeve, so basically everyone knows my exact thoughts by looking at my 面对.

    爱我

  • 您’re unique in 那 you reply to every single person who reaches out to you, and as far as I know you stay with them as long as they want you to. Unheard of. Never come across it before. It’s marvellous.

    I’m unique in 那 no-one else had my childhood, no-one did all of the things I chose to do as an adult and I’我唯一认识的人’过着这样的生活它’也是一个宜人的好地方。

    我们每个人都是独一无二的,因为我们是第一个拥有过去和现在独特融合的人。我们每个人都可以说与其他人分享的一些小东西,例如才能,技能和性格特质,这些都是共享的,但是每次遇到一个新朋友时,打开包装包就完全不同了。您是否曾经想过为什么没有两个手提箱’我曾经打包去度假吗?当然应该,因为我们’我已经练习了很多技巧,但是’从来没有决定过应该与上次完全相同。那’s also Us. It’混合,混合,包装的行李箱是独一无二的。

    In your case, the 遇见aphor would probably be a recipe, thinking about this exercise and you. No two recipes are identical, are they? And every batch of cookies is also unique. 那’是我们想要的;我们只在超市定居克隆,因为我们’过于忙碌的生活,无法每天从头开始。

    我不’不在超市货架上,您也不是。

  • 您 a重新独特,因为你 offer personal support and hand holding in a time of intense stress for your followers. And you do it with compassion and realism, not a big stick or fear.
    I’之所以如此独特,是因为我通过自己的经历瞥见了自我同情和爱的力量。

    我们都很棒。

    安妮

  • 什么 makes you unique is 那 you started a program based on a new, very positive and practical way for people to have hope 那 they could heal. 您 gave us an alternative 那 works! 那 simple first week stuff is worth millions of dollars, the taking care of me, long term, changed the way we look at this as not a disease 那 is incurable. Getting us past the stigma.

    您 have great ways of sharing our collective hope and determination. Therapists must be losing money at this point! They want us to think we are never gonna get better.

    什么’s unique about me is 那 I am religious, and so 存在 清醒 is really important to me as part of who I am … and 那 also gives me HOPE and so I think God sent you to me after years of praying and putting things in my life in place to be able to really get 清醒 and healthy and back to my old self. Because he knows me! And evidently, so do you!

  • As a resource, there is nothing like it. There is tuff luv, candid anecdotes, and a willingness to embrace repeated do-overs unconditionally. One can be passive (read bogs, order podcasts) or active (comment on blogs, e mail 美女 daily) and team 100 breaks down sobriety in smaller achievable chunks. Humor inspires. No top down approach, it’的同伴支持。生活成功。

    The organic evolution of Tired of a Thinking About Drinking is a beautiful thing. Much like the organic process of recovery. Also, 美女 encourages user feedback and input about how this resource operates. She is the catalyst for 清醒 members to support other 清醒 members in various ways. Themed photo submissions, for example, are ways we can have fun in recovery and learn more about each other. Very unique flare…..毫无疑问,这是我多年来尝试使用的最独特的清醒资源’.

  • The press?!? Wow. 我可以 say I knew you when…..
    是什么让您与众不同?清醒的人有多少“treat packages”?谁花了他们宝贵的时间并录制了一个清醒的播客,想免费赠送它,却要收取10美分的费用?谁录制关于我的清醒播客并将其发送给我?谁亲自回答您的电子邮件,而不是使用普通电子邮件“that’s great keep it up” or “是的,我会重启你”。我可以继续吗?一世’我在脑海里用一种喧闹的声音写这篇文章。就像所有的事情都要大写。
    我的独特性?不确定….. Other than 存在 a major Wiseass