I got an email from a Team 100 member, and 我可以’不要停止思考。这里’s an excerpt:
D： “Hi 美女, I see a counselor/coach and talked with her about checking in with you daily. We had an interesting conversation about the persecutor/ victim/ 营救者 triangle (a.k.a. the Karpman Drama Triangle) and the question I was asked was, “您是否以此为救命？”经过考虑，我意识到答案是“yes”从那以后，我对这对我意味着什么做了很多思考。我非常感谢你’在做，我非常喜欢你的写作… For now, I’我取代了我的旧故事“I can’t change on my own” to “我是一个有力量，有能力的女人，她尊重和尊重自己，并乐于助人“win” every day.”综上所述，我谨从每日电子邮件中撤出。”
我： 嗨，我完全明白… I see myself as more of a cheerleader. YOU do the work and I just stand around and throw glitter. if you think that would be helpful, you can let me know 🙂 我可以 definitely throw glitter, and would be glad to. And hopefully 我可以 do it in a way that doesn’t get in the way of your therapy. hugs.
所以在这里’s my question. 您如何看待‘rescue’? 你能看到D吗’s coach is coming from? Because I so respect what D is saying here. But how do you frame what support is? Is it glitter? Cheerleading? Is it 拯救? Is it putting something under the 三脚桌？还是关于 我们如何问别人 支持我们？
[注意：请保持体贴和体贴。我将轻轻地编辑攻击的注释；一世’谈话很有趣。禁止拉屎-您能相信拉屎不是吗’t in spell check?]